The 10 Biggest Mistakes That Men Make With Women

1. Being too nice and showing too much
interest
When a man meets a woman he is very
interested in, he tends to become over
accommodating and starts acting extra
nice.
He will do things like laugh at things that
aren’t too funny. He will agree with
everything she says. He will offer to help
her in any way that he can. And he will
generally display to her that he is willing to
do whatever she asks of him in exchange
for her to like him.
This is a recipe for failure. A woman
doesn’t feel attraction to a man who
presents himself to her as a subservient
servant.
Once a woman knows that you are willing
to do anything to be with her, all the
challenge is gone and she immediately
loses all interest and attraction for that
man.
Instead you want to show women that you
are a challenge. You want to show her that
you have personal power and don’t need to
suck up to her in order to get her love and
approval.
Keep your power for you because a
woman wants to date a powerful man, not
a subservient wimp.
Mistake Number 2: Leaning In
Another mistake men make is leaning into
the woman too much.
Leaning in means that you physically lean
your body towards her when you are
talking to her; this is not attractive and sub
communicates that you are bowing to her
and that you believe that she is more
valuable and powerful that you are.
In short, leaning in is a sign of submission.
A woman wants a man who is more
powerful than her, not less powerful.
So in order to sub-communicate to a
woman that you are more powerful and
dominant than her make sure you always
stand in an erect fashion and even lean
back a bit; this sub communicates that you
are confident, powerful and have high self
esteem. All those qualities are attractive to
women.
Never lean in; always lean back
Mistake Number 3: Not Taking The Lead In
An Interaction
Most men try to get the woman to lead the
interaction and conversation;
this is a huge mistake and makes women
lose attraction immediately.
Asking a woman a string of questions just
to get her talking is not the way to gain
rapport with her and make her like you.
When you put all the pressure on a woman
to lead the interaction and do all the talking
she will get annoyed and leave.
Also, asking a woman what she wants to
do instead of planning everything and just
inviting her along is also a huge mistake;
women hate having to lead and make
decisions.
From now on always take the lead in all
your conversations with women. Lead the
conversation where you want it to go. Also
be assertive and be the one who decides
where you guys are going to go out and
what you are going to do.
Always always lead.
Mistake Number 4: Thinking Of What To
Say Next
When talking to an attractive woman, men
are usually up in their heads thinking about
what they’re going to say next.
When you are up in your head instead of
in the present moment really listening to
her then she is not going to feel much
connection with you. She is going to see
that you look distracted; she will think you
aren’t really listening to her and don’t care
about what she has to say.
When you are thinking about what you are
going to say next you lose the intimate
connection that is necessary to
develop with a woman in order for her to
feel attracted to you.
Instead of thinking about what to say next,
be in the moment, get present in your
body and really listen to her.
Once you start truly listening to her, you
will connect with her because you are being
in the moment; and when you are in
the moment the woman can feel a true
connection with you.
Mistake Number 5: Trying To Impress
Women
A lot of men think they have to impress a
woman into liking them; this is wrong.
Sitting there talking about yourself and
how great you are does very little to
stimulate interest or attraction in a woman.
When a woman sees that you are obsessed
with yourself and always talking about your
possessions and accomplishments, she’s
going to think you are a selfish self
centered loser.
What a woman wants is a man who cares
about her and wants to connect with her
and learn about her hopes and dreams.
So from now on forget about impressing a
woman and instead focus on connecting
with her.
Get curious about her, her life, her
dreams, passions, struggles; once you do
this the woman will feel very connected and
safe with you. Once she feels connected
and safe then her next emotion is usually
attraction.
Mistake Number 6: Telling Her You Like
Her Too Soon
A lot of times you will meet a woman that
you really like and you will have this
powerful urge to express to her how crazy
you are about her; don’t do this!
Many men make the mistake of expressing
their interest to a woman too soon and
then the woman is turned off and runs
away.
You need to always keep a woman
suspended between hope and doubt; a
woman wants a challenge. The second a
woman knows that she can have you, she
loses interest in you.
You need to show her a little interest and
then balance that interest with displays of
disinterest; this will always keep her
guessing about you and keep you a
challenge in her eyes
Mistake Number 7: Talking About Negative
Things
When you meet a woman never talk about
anything negative.
Most men tend to talk about a lot of
negative things when they first meet a
woman; he talks about his X girlfriend, his
break up, how he is struggling at work, how
crappy the weather is etc….
Women hate this; they just want someone
who will make them feel happy.
So always make sure you only talk about
positive fun things when you are with a
woman. Take her on an adventure and
allow her to forget about her mundane
troublesome life. She wants a man who will
add excitement and joy to her life, not
bring her down into the dumps
Mistake Number 8: Having Weak Body
Language
When you are talking to a beautiful woman
don’t fidget or move around too much. A
woman is attracted to a man who is
confident and comfortable in his own skin.
If you are nervous, fidgeting, looking
around a lot, speaking too quickly and not
keeping strong eye contact then then
woman is going to sense that you are weak
and her attraction will die.
Be calm and strong in the presence of a
woman. Make your movements slow and
relaxed, keep strong eye contact, speak
slowly, breath slowly, be as relaxed as
possible. An alpha male is always relaxed
and in control of himself and the situation;
that’s what women are attracted to.
Mistake Number 9: Not Dressing Properly
Or Being Well Groomed
If you want a beautiful woman in your life
you have to present yourself
in an attractive fashion.
A lot of men have a very unattractive style.
Make sure you don’t weak
runners with jeans. Wear black socks with
pants and white socks with
shorts. Make sure your clothes fit your
body and look good on you.
Always shower and smell good. Make sure
all your body hairs are
trimmed including nose and ear hair if you
have them.
A woman judges you by your style, how
you are groomed and how well
you take care of your body. A woman
wants a healthy, clean, stylish man; not a
slob.
The way you take care of yourself tells her
a lot about how well you will take care of
her.
Mistake Number 10: Calling Her Too Much
When you get a woman’s phone number,
email address or Facebook, this does not
give you permission to call her and talk to
her all the time.
A lot of men get too excited when they get
a woman’s contact info and start calling
too much, texting too much or writing very
long Facebook messages to her; all these
behaviors creep women out so don’t do
them.
If she sees that you are too available and
contacting her all the time she will think
you are desperate and weird; she will stop
feeling attraction for you and start avoiding
you.
Always keep your contact with her brief
and casual. Maintain this until after you
have had sex with her. This way you are
sure not to scare her off before the
relationship has time to develop and
mature.
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