How To Get Guys To Approach You

Attitude:
Attitude is incredibly important because it
decides what types of men you attract.
Basically, what you expect will happen, will
actually end up happening. For example, if
you go out with your friends and all of you
strongly believe that all men are bastards,
you project an “all men are bastards”
attitude.
Guys that aren’t bastards won’t approach
you because they can smell this a mile
away, they see that you aren’t happy and
thus avoid any unpleasant encounters.
On the other hand, the men that will
approach you will be the ones that don’t
care about your attitude, don’t care about
how you feel which means they will
inevitably be, the bastards.
You might think that the bitchy girl gets all
the guys but in reality she only gets the
bastards.
Truth is, there’s nothing more attractive
than a woman with an uplifting attitude, a
happy woman. It’s the same with men;
would you date that guy that thinks all
women are “bitches”? Exactly.
Go out with a happy and healthy attitude
towards men and you’ll have a much
higher chance of attracting a high-quality
guy in your life.
Ego:
If you’re out there to meet guys why would
you act like you’re out there to do anything
else? Wanting to meet someone doesn’t
make you a slut; it just makes you a person.
If you’re trying to maintain some image for
whatever reason, think about how that is
actually keeping you from getting what you
want. Be happy about wanting to meet
someone and drop your ego, it’s only going
to work against you.
Body Language:
This is fairly straight forward. If you want a
guy to approach you, act like it. Don’t cross
your arms, don’t fidget, don’t look the
other way etc.
Remember, you want to look happy so
don’t be afraid to smile . Don’t walk around
with a sad grin on your face acting like
you’re not enjoying yourself.
Don’t be afraid to make eye contact with
men you find attractive. Give them a warm
and inviting gaze. Let them know that
you’re interested and they will approach
you. Avoid looking down at the floor or
above people’s heads, look straight so you
can make eye contact.
Be Inviting:
This can be traced back to the attitude
issue but it’s always great if a woman can
seem inviting. Basically, you’re inviting a
guy to come over and talk to you and when
he does you act inviting towards the
conversation. When I approach women I
always have a much better and easier time
with a woman that “helps” me interact with
her.
If she’s just negative about our interaction
it just makes it that much more difficult to
continue the conversation. So, if a guy that
you find attractive, musters up the courage
to come and talk to you, act inviting and
he’ll be much more likely to stay.
Drop your guard:
In this day and age, everyone in a “social
situation” (bar/club) has a sort of social
guard. Guys defend themselves by acting
cocky or super important while women
defend themselves by acting bitchy or
super obnoxious.
Sadly, at the end of the night, all of these
well guarded individuals end up going
home drunk, horny, disappointed and
alone.
Someone that isn’t so well guarded is
always respected or even envied by other
people because everyone wishes they could
act like that, everyone wishes they could be
real but for some reason they just put up
this guard that destroys their social
interactions.
You don’t need to drop this guard all the
time, for everyone. But drop it around the
people you actually like, the guys you feel
attracted to.
In order meet someone that is genuine you
need to first be genuine yourself. Don’t be
afraid to be the first person that shares a
personal story. If you want people to be
fun and open, be fun and open with them.
Have the right friends:
Often times, women have a habit of
condemning each other.  This makes your
fear of being called “shameless” perfectly
reasonable but, this fear is also keeping
you from meeting the right guy.
If you’re going out with girls that are going
to judge you when you want to meet guys
then how do you expect to meet anyone?
The only solution is to get rid of these
friends, not always, but at least when
you’re out trying to meet someone new.
Nobody wants to have someone talking
behind their backs just because they
wanted to meet a decent guy.
Also, avoiding the “man hater” friend is also
a good idea. She can give men that horrible
look that will keep them at a great distance
for the entire night.
Enjoy yourself:
Don’t make going out all about meeting
new guys. If that’s the only thing you’re out
there for, you’re going to have a much
harder time when it doesn’t happen.
Also, going out purely with this mindset
might make you come out as needy and
desperate, things that you don’t want a guy
to think about you. Make the night fun,
regardless of what’s going to happen.
Don’t be afraid to approach:
Even though it may be common sense for
the guy to approach you, there’s nothing
wrong if you do it.
Some men may be great guys but may have
a really hard time approaching women. If
you make the first step, trust me, he won’t
think you’re easy; he’ll just be happy that
you did. He will see you as a confident, fun
and social woman that everyone would
want to talk to.
Hopefully he’ll have the guts to at least
continue the conversation once you’ve
started it.