Wednesday 18 September 2013

7 Essential Things That Men Find Attractive About A Woman

1.       A cheerful woman
Nothing turns a man off more than a
depressed and mean attitude. If you want
to get that extra attention make sure you
look cheerful because a flirty giggle and a
cheerful attitude can quickly melt any
man’s heart.
I agree that it’s not always easy to have
such an attitude but if you can think about
the happier side of life, all the time, this will
happen naturally. It’s the same for you
isn’t it? Would you date a guy that hates
his life and is genuinely miserable?
Probably not, so think about this next time
you go out.
2.       A well dressed, good looking
woman
Yes, we men are attracted by looks, you
knew it, I said it and it’s the truth. But do
not worry because this doesn’t mean you
have to undergo plastic surgery…
Dressing well and looking good are things
that you can immediately change. I’m not
going to give any lessons on fashion as I’m
probably not the right person to do so
however, caring about what you put on and
the way you apply some make-up can be
detrimental when it comes to attracting
men.
Just focus on dressing well and feeling
good about yourself. If you feel good about
how you look then the people around you
will feel the same way. You don’t have to
wear flashy color clothes or anything like
that, just be confident, have well fitted
clothes and use a little bit of perfume and
you’ll be attracting some males in no time.
3.       A flirty woman
There’s nothing like a woman that can flirt
back. We know that in order to attract a
woman we have to flirt. Sadly, often times
they don’t flirt back but…when they do…
it’s absolutely amazing. Flirting back puts
you in a very strong WOMANLY position,
not only are getting in control but also you
are acting like a woman. A womanly woman
is absolutely infatuating for any man on
this planet.
What do you need to do? Simple things like
curling your lips or biting them slightly,
raising your eyebrows when you make a
smart remark, jiggling at our jokes, being
genuinely interested in what we say – these
sort of things. If you can’t yet master this
subtle art, try looking at yourself in the
mirror and exercise there. It may seem
awkward at first but it will help you get the
hand of things fairly quickly.
4.       Show us some skin
Now this isn’t a guide on how to be slutty
however, that little bit of extra skin turns
our heads in an instant. Too much skin is a
cry for attention and men know it but if
you play it subtle – It will work a lot better.
A shirt or a tee that ends just right around
where your jeans start or a perfectly fitting
top with a wider neck that shows a bit but
yet needs a bit of craning to get a peep is
just the perfect combination. We love those
nearly-there peeks and it drives us crazy.
5.       A seductive voice
Again, this isn’t about changing your voice
but using it correctly. There are little things
in life that make the hair on a man’s back
raise with excitement and a woman’s voice
is one of them. Mastering the art of the
seductive voice takes time so don’t focus
on it too much.
Men are turned off by high pitched glass
shattering squeals that most women use
when they’re surprised or ecstatic with joy.
A low and soft voice is obviously more
attractive. Lucky for you, it’s actually not
that hard to speak in a low, softer tone
without seeming like you’re trying too hard.
Exercise your new found talent on the
phone but don’t blame me if the guy on
the other line starts to get flirty.
6.       A Damsel In Distress
Maybe the term damsel in distress is too
much for this but you get the idea, a
woman in need. This may actually be a
man’s dream, to help out a woman in
need…as it gives them the perfect
opportunity to be A MAN in front of you.
Men love to feel wanted and then
appreciated by women. You might think
that men hate doing errands and stuff like
that but we hate it only when we’re in a
long term relationship. At the beginning, we
are at your disposal so use us in any way
you want. So, if you know a single guy, go
up to him with a smile on your face and ask
him to help you with something, chances
are he’ll jump to your help immediately.
We love women that ask for our help, it just
makes us feel manlier and it gives us the
opportunity to have a conversation with
you. And when you thank us with a flirty
smile, there’s a good chance we’ll do
anything to get your number.
7.       A woman who acknowledges a
man’s stare
This is the first step in seduction and
probably the most important. You need to
have the ability to acknowledge our stares.
Sure, some guys have a lot of guts and
approach you instantly but most guys don’t
have this type of attitude and you need to
give them at least the slightest reason to
react.
Many guys will try to get your attention by
giving a manly stare. React to this by
looking back at them. You don’t even have
to smile (sure if you do, you give them even
more reasons to approach you) but even
just acknowledging their look is enough.
You don’t need to do this with every guy
that looks at you, but if he seems decent
enough, do it.
Also, you don’t need to marry him or have
his babies but this will give you the chance
meet a guy, you can decide later if he’s
your type or not …if no guy comes to you
in any given night, how will you ever find a
guy this way? This simple acknowledgement
of a stare is the most important thing you
can do if you want to get a guy to notice
you and come in for the approach.
In conclusion, now that you have this
knowledge make sure you use it wisely.
There are a lot of women out there that just
scream for attention, don’t be that woman
because we men, hate her. Attract us but
show us that you’re different when we
approach you, this is how long term
relationships are built.

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