1
The butterfly position or
modified missionary
“With the woman on her back and her hips
on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates
her while standing. She then puts her legs
over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly
upwards. This gives a wonderful angle for
cervical stimulation with deep penetration
that can produce some intense vaginal and
uterine orgasms. With more shallow
penetration, a man can stimulate the
anterior vaginal wall to hit the G-spot.”
–Dr. Madeleine M. Castellanos, a
psychiatrist who specializes in sex therapy
2
Modified coital alignment
technique
“A couple starts off in missionary position.
Once a man penetrates a woman deeply,
he allows her to bring her legs together
between his. He then shifts his weight
slightly forward so that the shaft of his
erection is producing firm pressure and
friction on her clitoris as he moves. This
works very well for women that prefer to
have clitoral stimulation during penetration
to reach a very powerful orgasm.”
–Dr. Castellanos
3
Baring the scepter
“Either partner can perform this technique,
although the bottom person’s hands may
be more able to pull it off. Form a ring with
thumb and forefinger around the base of
the penis. Then, pull down so the skin on
the shaft is taut. This exposes more nerve
endings and increases the penis’ sensitivity
— it can also help maintain his erection.
Engage in intercourse with your hand still
encircling the base to send his pleasure
soaring.”
–Jaiya, new world sex educator and author
of “Red Hot Touch”
4
The counter top
“This is my favorite. It’s when the woman is
laying on her back on the counter or table
while he enters standing. It’s rough.
There’s pushing aside of papers, pepper
shakers which add to the sense of urgency
and inappropriateness. It’s easy to
maneuver and move the woman to slide
along the counter. There is still contact. He
goes deep and feels in control. It works all
the way around. The keys are clothing, stuff
in the way, and being in an open space.
Still allows for connection while feeling
dirty. It just works on so many levels. It’s
not about acrobats. It’s about context.”
–Margaret Wagner, sex expert and founder
of Bedroom Matters
5
The seated scissors
“This position allows the woman to have the
control in order to determine the depth
and angle of penetration, as well as how
much clitoral stimulation she gets. With the
man laying flat on his back and his knees
bent, she straddles him with one leg to the
side of his hip, and the other leg between
his legs. The woman can then find just the
right spot to grind against his pubic bone
with him inside her. She controls the pace,
the depth, and the amount of pressure and
friction she receives. This is definitely a
prescription for mind-blowing sex!”
–Dr. Castellanos
6
Get off, stand up
“I’m no [pro], but whenever I’ve had sex
standing up and holding my partner in the
air or up against the wall, it’s been mind-
blowing for both of us. I suspect it taps
into some of our innate gender differences:
the strong man and the small woman,
which in turn heightens the sexual
experience. It also forces us to be in a full
embrace, which furthers the emotional
connection, as well as our physical one. It’s
physically demanding and not for all
couples but for those that can, it’s highly
recommended.”
–Jim, an experienced heterosexual male
7
Uncloaking the clit
“Given a woman’s clitoris is buried under
the clitoral hood and cushiony mons pubis
surrounding it, it’s no wonder this tiny nub
rarely receives enough stimulation during
intercourse to catch the O-train. Your
hands, though, can help change that. Form
a ‘V’ with your index and middle finger and
point your fingers toward your feet. Press
this V onto the mons pubis, with a finger to
each side of the clitoris. Then, pull up,
moving the skin with your hand. This
should unveil the hard-to-reach clit in all
its glory, exposing this little love button to
a lot more action.”
–Jaiya
8
Shake ‘n’ bake
“If you’re craving a quick-but-stimulating
break from intercourse, this move is the
perfect titillating timeout. To do it, the man
withdraws and rests the tip of his penis on
the clitoris. Then, hold the base of the
penis and shake it quickly from side to side
so that the head hits the clitoris with every
wiggle. In doing so, you’ll be stimulating
both heads at once — that of the clitoris
and the penis — which should send you
both into paroxysms of pleasure.”
–Jaiya
9
Pushing tush
“If your guy enjoys having his back door
explored, reach around with both hands
and grab both cheeks. From there, you can
do ‘Butt Yoga’ (a technique whereby you
spread the cheeks apart, then together, one
up one down then vice versa) or ‘Anal
Yoga’ (a technique whereby you place your
middle fingers to the sides of the anus then
spread them apart, then diagonally, then
up and down). If that gets him hankering
for more, feel free to delve deeper.”
–Jaiya
10
Happy scissors
“Heating up hot spots aren’t your hands-
only talents. They’re also great at moving
body parts where you want them, and this
technique is a prime opportunity. During
intercourse, raise your legs, then have your
man hold an ankle in each hand. From
there, you can spread her legs apart, hold
them together, part them at 80 degrees, the
options are endless. And since the tendons
of the legs pivot deep in the pelvic cavity,
moving them around will subtly alter the
below-the-belt sensations for you both.
Talk about getting a leg up on a little
variety!”
–Jaiya
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