5 Steps To Develop Self- Confidence (MUST READ)

The following tips will help in developing
self-confidence:
1. Re-appraise yourself and look at the
area that really need development. Never
think that you are not important because
"as a man thinketh so is he. You must not
have inferiority complex, because if you
did, others will treat you the same.
2. Make effort to observe how others
carry themselves and notice how
confident they act. Choose for yourself a
role model and make reference to them
as you plan to acquire the same
confidence as they have. Do not just
observe, apply it for yourself. If your are
determined to have the same self-
confidence as your role mode, you must
practice what they do. Putting it into
practice is the best thing to do.
3. You must have self control. Do those
things you must do and avoid those you
must not do. This might take time but
with a lot of patience they are achievable.
If you can control your thoughts and
actions, you are opening your doors for
opportunity. Act with a purpose, because
a purposeful action is essential for your
success. If you did this you will be
demonstrating your capacity to control
things around you. These are the qualities
and attributes of a leader and gateway to
fun and success.
4. Develop the Habit of expressing your
thoughts in front of people and make a
concerted effort to eradicate fear from
your life. Practice, practice and practice.
You can start by reading in front of a
mirror and see your own action. Read in
front of friends and family as your
audience and accept comments from
them. These comments will help you
develop yourself.
5. Try and develop your skills and work
hard on your weaknesses. Turn your
weaknesses into strength. Never give up
in the face of challenges and obstacles,
most times they are there to prepare you
for greater height. Complement others
and acknowledge their good aspects and
you will receive the same from them.