6 Steps to Being Classy, Sassy and Single

Being single for a female often comes with
a bit of fear and also a stigma. We are often
treated as if there is something
fundamentally wrong with us if we are
single and not taken. Relationships come
and go, and single-dom is usually never a
permanent state of existence for us ladies,
so take your single time to love yourself,
not be needy and desperate and find your
own contentment.
1. Now is the time: If you ever wanted to
lose weight, get in shape, or get a new
wardrobe— then get off your couch, put
your tissue your down and start exercising
and watching your diet. Why not?
2. Happily single means loving
yourself: Devote your time to your
passions, dreams, and goals without
distractions. It is YOUR timefreedom!
Whatever it is that you are passionate
about, make it happen. Because being
single is often temporary, take advantage of
this break in time and chase your dreams.
This way you will not lose them if or when
you find love again.
3. No More Compromise: Being single,
you no longer have to compromise yourself
or any part of you to fit into the mold that
someone else wants to create for you. You
get to live your life for a time by your
choices. This allows you to create a life that
is so awesome you don’t want to be
rescued from it. No need for a prince now
because you are a full-fledged independent
classy woman all on your own. Getting to
this place is what will bring you a strong
man, one that can be with you and not be
intimidated.
4. Happily single will lead to happily
taken (if that is what you want): To be
happy in your future relationship you must
first show yourself you can be happy with
yourself. You need to show yourself there
is no need to be needy and desperate for a
relationship because you can support
yourself, pay your own bills, raise your own
kids, take care of your own car and find
your own sense of community, friendship
and happiness. You are sassy and can
create a life where love will expand and
bring to you the life of your own design.
5. Alone does not mean lonely: You do
not need a significant other to have a
significant life. Whatever and whoever you
were in your previous relationship is still
who you are. You are not a diminished
version of you because you no longer have
a partner. In fact, you have the opportunity
now to be even more of you. Be happy, at
least you didn’t lose you. Enjoy who you
are and all that love you used to give out to
your partner you can now spoil yourself
with it.
6. Be Loving: When you can be alone and
be happy you will remember that you are
beyond loveable. Be loving. Be loving to
everyone and smile, because love is
contagious. You will find that your life
opens when you are loving; you stand tall
and you smile. Loving people are more
successful; loving people are more stable
and loving people are happier. Let yourself
sparkle and shine. Whatever parts of you
that you had to suppress while in a
relationship you are now free to express
without reservation.
Be brave, my single ladies. It is a beautiful
and ever creative time in your life. It is
YOUR time. Alone time is hard to come by
in life, so take advantage of it and love
yourself crazy. Spoil yourself, make your
life completely decorated and designed by
you. Express yourself, find and live your
independent significance. It’s all about you.
Little life message: Love yourself and your
life will shift.